For many gay men, finding sex—or at least finding other gay men—when travelling is not too difficult. Somehow instinct takes over, or a friendly local will point you in the right direction.

Laws related to homosexuality vary from country to country so it’s a good idea to be familiar with the specific laws of the countries you intend to visit. In some countries there can be heavy penalties for male-to-male sex. Also, where male-to-male sex is not illegal, age of consent laws for sex vary considerably, as do laws related to sex work. This is the case between the different states and territories in Australia too. It is worthwhile doing some research before you go. This can be done through the Internet or using printed gay guides that are readily available in bookshops. Most cities with large commercial gay scenes will have weekly newspapers that list gay venues such as bars and nightclubs as well as sex venues such as saunas (bath houses) and cruising clubs.

What to expect

Australian gay men often find it surprising that some of the things they take for granted are not the same elsewhere. This goes for expectations about sex venues as well. Even access to condoms and lube can be an issue. These are not always readily available, and in some sex venues they are not provided in the way they are in most places in Australia. Sometimes they are available, but you have to go to the front counter and purchase them. In some countries it may not be possible to get access to the same quality condoms as those available in Australia. For these reasons it’s a good idea to take a supply of condoms and lube with you when you are travelling.

If something goes wrong ...

If you think you have been exposed to HIV, there may be a treatment available that can prevent HIV infection. This is called post-exposure prophylaxis, or PEP. In Australia, PEP is available in all states and territories. (Visit the Get PEP website for information about where to get PEP in Australia.) In many other countries PEP is not available at all, or you have to pay the full cost of the treatment.

PEP is a course of anti-HIV drugs every day for a period of four weeks. PEP does not guarantee prevention of HIV infection; however, research shows that PEP may significantly decrease the chances of infection after exposure to HIV.

The drugs used are the same as those used to treat people who are already HIV positive. They can often cause unpleasant side effects.

PEP is most effective when taken immediately, or within a couple of hours after exposure to HIV. However, PEP may still be effective if taken within 72 hours.

If you think you have been exposed to HIV you should seek medical advice as soon as possible. Where it is available in Australia, PEP can be accessed through sexual health clinics or doctors who specialise in HIV/AIDS, or through hospital accident and emergency departments. In other countries you could contact a local HIV organisation or gay health service to find out if PEP is available. These are usually listed in gay newspapers, magazines and travel guides.